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Deciding What You Want: Before You Leap In or Out of the MarriageDeciding What You Want: Before You Leap In or Out of the Marriage (e-book)

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Your partner claims to have changed and is offerring you a "new and improved" relationship. But how can you know that this is real change and not another manipulation? This 18-page ebook helps you to answer these questions and decide whether to risk reconciliation with your partner.

Marital Separation: Establishing a Cooperative Relationship With Your Partner During a Marital CrisisMarital Separation: Establishing a Cooperative Relationship With Your Partner During a Marital Crisis (e-book)

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A separation communicates, “I am willing to withdraw from our relationship until you let me know you are committed to the relationship.” This is not a statement of powerlessness; it is a statement of strength. You choose to give your spouse distance. You are willing to give your spouse distance from the emotional push and pull that arises when you interact. This 15-page ebook guides you through the process of establishing a healthy marital separation and a path toward reconciliation with your partner.

Establishing Personal Worth and Managing Your MoodEstablishing Personal Worth and Managing Your Mood (e-book)

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During a marital crisis, it is important for the rejected partner to maintain self-worth and manage his or her mood. This 34 page ebook explains the futility of pursuing a partner who is not committed to the marriage. Instead, you will learn to send a message of worth that communicates your value and attracts, rather than pursues your partner. Also, you will learn to manage the depression, anxiety, and anger that undermines your ability to make good decisions during this time of crisis in your relationship.

Avoiding Regret: Encouraging Good Decision Making in a Marital CrisisAvoiding Regret: Encouraging Good Decision Making in a Marital Crisis (e-book)

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This 20-page ebook helps you to avoid the trap of falling into emotional decision-making during a crisis in your marriage. You will learn how to build personal power by becoming the director rather than reacting to your partner's uncertain commitment to the marriage. By encouraging good decision-making, you and your partner can avoid regrets over decisions made too quickly or out of anger.

Understanding Your Distancing PartnerUnderstanding Your Distancing Partner (e-book)

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This 14-page ebook helps you to understand the mind and actions of a partner whose commitment to the marriage has become uncertain. You will learn why his or her reactions are so hurtful. You will also learn how to respond so that you will preserve the marriage while gaining personal power in the relationship.

Responding to the Crisis in Your RelationshipResponding to the Crisis in Your Relationship (e-book)

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Perhaps you have only begun to accept the truth. You have seen the signs of your deteriorating relationship. Your partner is distant and has no time for you. There never seems to be a good time to address issues. There is always an excuse given to avoid talking about the marriage. The reality is that your partner is distancing from you and the excuses hide the fact that your partner’s commitment to the marriage is uncertain. This 13-page ebook will help you understand how to respond so that you will not harm your relationship and will do your best to attract your partner's commitment to the relationship.

Crumbling Commitment: Managing a Marital CrisisCrumbling Commitment: Managing a Marital Crisis (book)

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Each year there are over one million divorces in America. Each divorce is preceded by a marital crisis. A crisis begins when a spouse’s commitment to the marriage becomes uncertain. The message, “I’m not sure I want to be married” brings a cascade of emotion. Deeply hurt and wanting desperately to save the marriage, the rejected mate grasps-often destructively-for something to preserve the relationship. Crumbling Commitment: Managing a Marital Crisis is a lifeline for those who are left feeling helpless and powerless to respond to their distancing mate. From the initial shock that comes with the knowledge that one’s spouse is not committed to the marriage to the final decision to reconcile or divorce, this book helps the reader to make decisions and regain power in each stage of the marital crisis.